idk every time someone’s nice to nana i wanna cry a little fhdkhfdk. that’s a very old vulnerable part of me that used to be very very confused and lost and realized eventually that he didn’t “have” to be the bad guy, he wasn’t even the bad guy in the first place he was just. Confused and lost
this might be controversial of me but like. If you wanna be cute about how a predatory age gap “isn’t predatory”, you do not get to be even slightly surprised when people start telling you their stories LOL. “Ummm wow no boundaries much :(” You said something false that people want to tell you are false because believing 40 year old men arent predators for wanting to fuck 20 smth year old college students led to actual real life trauma and tragedy for a lot of us
Very long work week has drained my soul and I almost forgot to answer this. Very well teehee
A young lady whose dream world intersects with that of an entity that exists outside time and space inside of an endless void, always an observer. It is such an extremely rare event that Ark is compelled to investigate, but his presence leads to corruption within the world of her dreams.
She is shy and quiet, absent-minded and sleepyheaded. Sleeps mostly - secretly pretty depressed when not at her work-from-home job. She’s used to exploring her dream world by now, so familiar that she notices him pretty quickly. When she sees him he is dissecting and pulling apart different dream denizens, examining architecture.. but eventually his prying eyes turn toward this world’s creator herself, and how she could have made such a place.
She is at once frightened, disturbed, and intrigued by him. Naturally pulled forward by her foggy curiosity, she gets more than she bargained for when his experiments turn prying and intrusive. He wants to see how in control she really is.
I wish age gap discourse hadn’t spiraled the way it has because I want there to be a safe space to say “Men in their 40s who date 25 year olds aren’t predators, they’re just fucking losers”
Hey op how old are u because i’m guessing either you’re a 40 y/o predator, a loved one of a 40 y/o predator, or you’re 25 and about to have some very interesting therapy in five years
Source: best friend groomed to suicide by 40 y/o man
WE HAVE TO LET 40 YEAR OLD MEN KNOW THAT IT’S NOT THEIR FAULT YOU GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <33333 ;_; IT’S NOT /INHERENTLY/ GROOMING!!!!!
man i really just dont get this “writing about it equals supporting it” brainrot absolute bullshit. And like. Most people online in literally every space i can reach absolutely believes it now. That is what people believe about me and other survivors who choose to speak. That we’re yucky proshippers for daring to name what happened and go into detail in any way, because “ewww its gross”. this is like… hundreds of thousands of people. who believe this and think it is the correct moral opinion, that literally any kind of sympathy towards any survivor that actually wants to talk about their trauma is inherently supporting and reenacting that trauma. like. For Real
I wish age gap discourse hadn’t spiraled the way it has because I want there to be a safe space to say “Men in their 40s who date 25 year olds aren’t predators, they’re just fucking losers”
… honey you just described a predator LOL
No, I said what I said. But thank you for providing an example of how this topic has become insufferable on the internet.
i am honestly burningly curious about how a 40 year old man who fucks around with college grads is not a predator
“College grad” is not a developmental stage, nor is it what I would describe a 25 year old as. I was 4 years out of college at 25. My mother had two children at 25. You can be a fucking congressman at 25.
There’s a difference between a man who is immature and buys into misogynistic views of beauty and aging and one who is a predator. Also, many actual predators? Not losers and able to move through society pretty freely being seen as cool and the ideal, so conflating the two isn’t helpful.
This is going to be my final response to any attempt at discourse. You’re welcome to continue amongst yourselves.
this response is… Amazing and thought-provoking. we can truly just say anything we want on the internet. we have to let all the 40 year old men who can’t get it up for a woman their own age that they arent predators for preying on younger women with lower standards and less experience dating and less of a frigid intolerance for male stupidity you guys
sure you fight against the “tolerance and acquiescence” to incest on tumblr dot com which i guess is a thing but what are you actually doing for actual incest survivors. No i am not talking about people groomed into thinking fictional incest makes IRL incest normal and okay. I mean Incest Survivors.
